Sleeping through sex can be very erotic
original link: http://altvariety.com/sex-hypnotist/
By Tony Sokol
You shouldn’t have clicked on this article. Just by reading it you have given tacit permission for these words to slip deep into your mind, opening it to whatever might be shoveled into it. Comfortable and accepting these words. You are getting very horny. Hypnosis has always had an erotic quality, from the dream temples of ancient Egypt to the vampiric glamoring on HBO’s True Blood. The magnetic Anton Mesmer invented hypnosis to cop a feel. His women patients wore loose-fitting clothes so that he could knead out the knots caused by the sexual repression that formed in the breasts and butts of his young and pretty female patients. Mesmer got their juices flowing. He fled Paris to escape the Imperial Morality Police. The last royal family of Russia fell under the influence of the highly sexualized, nearly indestructible monk Grigori Yefimovich Rasputin. Hypnosis was cited as a natural alternative to drugs when it was used in World War I during surgery. It is celebrated now as an alternative to even illegal drugs. It is an alternative high. Hypnotherapist and filmmaker Elena Beloff is steeped in science as she shoots a documentary on modern hypnosis, but even she offers a “Hypnotic Ecstasy” audio trance to guide the listener through the experience of taking what Lex Pelger calls his “favorite tool for psycho-therapeutic growth,” MDMA. The metaphysician Ashanti Ram says she used “sensual hypnosis to release my fears and anxiety in intimacy interaction.” Hypnosis can help people quit smoking, lose weight and explore past lives and it can also be used calm inhibitions, realistically explore fantasies and seduce women.
Ray Jones is best known as a corporate comedy hypnotist in east Tennessee where he makes men in power ties participate in slightly embarrassing skits. Jones has been interested in hypnosis since the age of five after “seeing a stage performer at church and Svengali movies on TV.” The former standup spent over $300,000 over seven years studying NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). He also studied hypnosis training and seduction with Ross Jeffries. He says, “I went to hypnosis certification seminars with several certified trainers to get my certified hypnotherapist degrees and also became a certified stage hypnotist five years ago.” Jones wanted to combine NLP and hypnosis to “fix therapeutic issues in one session. I believe in brief therapy instead of years of therapy from a psychotherapist. Change can be instant.”
“Women love that they can be monogamous with their mate and still get incredible satisfaction even though the mate can no longer stay hard long or only last a minute.”
Stage hypnosis may seem as if people perform stupid pet tricks because they want to be good sports, to please their hypnotist, as in improvisational comedy where the first rule is to never say no. “No!” says Jones, “there is always some wanting to please the hypnotist. That’s why on stage shows we start with simple skits so those not under very deep can go along with the others so they `Fake it till they make it,’ meaning: as they follow those nicely hypnotized, they will reach that level too. If not, I roll them off the stage so they can enjoy the others preform.” Jones can’t make someone do anything against their “core beliefs. But you can influence them and stack the deck in your favor to get the therapeutic (or erotic) outcome the client desires,” whether it is weight loss or to help someone stop smoking, for which Jones will “make a cigarette taste like dog crap so they avoid the pain. No one wants to smoke turds but it serves to help get the goal accomplished. My sister-in-law asked me to finally try to help her not like bread after seeing me do some stage shows. As soon as I woke her up she said she was never hypnotized and it didn’t work (yeah, sister-in-law’s a bitch). She ran to the kitchen, shoved some bread in her mouth, and then threw up as it tasted like dog shit. ‘His mojo is strong.’
Jones is a member in good standing with the National Guild of Hypnotists. “I developed erotic hypnotic techniques as clients wanted help with sexual dysfunction.” These sessions led Jones to explore kinks and taboos safely under hypnosis. “I have performed two years in a row for Fetishcon and am returning again next summer for another adult workshop and comedy hypnosis show.” Jones began performing and teaching hypnosis for therapeutic and erotic applications at fetish and BDSM clubs. “I have been on the casting couch from Night Moves magazine and ScreamingSam.com while at Fetishcon and am scheduled to come back to Tampa to do live XXX erotic shows with models they have. It will be a blast.” He is available for private erotic and therapeutic sessions. Jones launched an erotic hypnosis website. “I am always looking for models for paid shoots to explore fantasies and kinks on video.” He says anything can seem real under hypnosis “so even the most taboo things can be tried safely and legally.”
Jones conducts weekend-long training seminars where he teaches various induction techniques including an instant induction that can drop people in one second. He also teaches covert techniques that can hypnotize people in the course of normal conversation, and seduction strategies that create arousal. These techniques are based on an approach to communication called Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP), that Jones classifies as “Tony Robbins type stuff” which Richard Bandler and John Grinder modeled on the hypnotic approach of medical hypnotist Dr. Milton Erickson “who had miracle cures but was not able to teach how he did it.”
The Journal of Professional Psychology: Research and Practice lists neuro-linguistic programming among its discredited therapies and NLP has been characterized as pseudo-science, but picking up women is an art and not a science. More men than women enroll in Jones’ seduction hypnosis classes because he explains “getting laid for a man is a chore, but for a woman is a choice.” Jones conducts private trainings for individuals, couples and small groups, usually in the BDSM or erotic areas. “I have couples hire me for intimate work to supercharge their sex lives exponentially stronger, longer, better and wetter than ever imagined possible.”
Jones finds that men and women come to hypnosis with different motivations. “Women love that they can be monogamous with their mate and still get incredible satisfaction even though the mate can no longer stay hard long or only last a minute.” Jones uses hypnosis to distort their perception of time “where it seems like a half hour of incredible orgasmic delights. Or I just put the women in charge so they can cum; feel spanked, eaten, massaged, anal. Whatever kinks and pleasures they want using special trigger words I set up to use inside their head so they feel powerful orgasms” and can explore “kinks desired with whomever they want.” He believes more men teach hypnotic seduction than women because “getting laid is a chore for men that requires skills.” Jones doesn’t believe these skills are necessary for women. “However, I can teach techniques to gays and lesbians too.”
Some of the models that Jones shoots for his erotic hypnosis videos are “escorts so they love that they can nut when they are bored with a John and makes the John feel like they are a super-stud.” The woman can subconsciously learn to orgasm faster, allowing the men to feel “excited that the hooker is orgasming from whatever weak performance they are doing. It’s a win/win for all involved. Men, it’s the same, but I take all the triggers I set up with their submissive female(s) and turn the reigns over to their `dominant male.’ It works well for all. Submissive gays and transvestites are always soliciting me for business so I will do feminization sessions for them too, for pay. In one two-hour session they can achieve all their kinks and goals.”
The dominant male isn’t the only user of erotic hypnosis. Goddess Cathy Venus (http://venushypno.com), who also has her roots in comedy, having performed improv, says “I don’t think male ‘tists get much play. In my opinion male ‘tists are by far better per capita than females. However, all I ever heard about in the `erotic’ arena are women.” The dominant female has her own take on the sexual subconscious. She wants your love, money and obedience. Female erotic hypnotists explore mind control scenarios.
Gigi Frost
Paranormal investigator Gigi Frost has been called “the Oprah of Hypnosis” for her ability “to hypnotize groups as large as 1,200 people at one time.” Though she doesn’t practice any form of mind control, or erotic hypnosis, she says “Within hypnosis, from the moment I walk into a room with a client, I incorporate my body movement, the verbal tone of my voice and a light touch. All are a part of waking hypnosis which has been known to be so seductive; a client can go under immediate submission.”
Goddess Cathy Venus
Goddess Cathy Venus says “When it comes to hypnosis, no one can actually make a subject do something that is objectionable or against their own will. That being said, if a subject desires to be mind-controlled, of course that too can happen.” Venus was 27 when she first got interested in hypnosis in 2006. She is self-taught, which may allow her the freedom to be more daring in her mesmeric mayhem than the might have been she’d been traditionally schooled in hypnosis. “I think it did. I learned naturally, then later on learned the rules, understood the discipline of Hypnosis and NLP. But it definitely opened me up to be different than the rest.” That difference might be found in her empathy. She loses herself in her work. Venus believes “all hypnotists by nature go into trance just by doing it.”
Venus is pioneering a new technique that she calls “entrainment. It has more to do with brainwaves becoming synced via a sort of master/slave equation. It can go beyond text, audio, or visual stimuli, but there still must be certain common focal points.” This technique goes beyond the normally accepted barriers of hypnosis. She explains “Psychic ability coincides with entrainment.”
Venus doesn’t believe she can hypnotize anyone she sets her gaze upon because “Only persons of a certain intelligence level and above can be hypnotized. Also a personality has to be a willing subject.” She can hypnotize people without their knowing, “but not without the initial granting of permission and trust. Once triggered or anchored, of course, many subjects will respond to stimuli. Additionally, NLP can do this to a subject without any conditioning or hypnotic triggering.”
Cathy Venus says she thoroughly enjoys “My ability to control minds at large. Not only those who give control over to me, but using NLP and entrainment can and does afford me the enjoyable ability to even control those who do not openly invite me to. What it feels like is an incredible bonding feeling, they generally hand over trust and I put them where they ought to be. I am like the usher of your mind’s theater seating.”
Venus says people want to give over control because they “need do decompress and de-stress so very badly in today’s society. They lack the self-discipline to meditate oftentimes, and/or do self-hypnosis. They desire to hand me the keys, and boy can I drive. In the case of the hypnotic fetisher, they actually crave an outside force to tell them what to do, how to think, and let them know a sense of security that only a true Goddess can afford them. The desire to clear the mind of all thoughts, to be as a blank slate appeals to them deeply. Oftentimes I also have those who crave to struggle against an outside force, specifically a more powerful woman, such as myself. My mental capacity, beauty, voice, and general abilities virtually force them to surrender, and they love it. Just imagine me as the Ronda Rousey of Hypnosis, they know I can arm-bar their minds within the first round, and drop them hard and deep.”
There are different thoughts on whether the use of drugs inhibit hypnosis or aid it, to which Cathy Venus explained, “I am the drug.”
Miss Lexie
Miss Lexie, who is also known as “The Sorority Girl,” is a genuine “grad school sorority girl” who has “genuinely been a sex worker for close to ten years.” She says “For me, both professionally and recreationally, hypnosis is about control. As a dominant, I enjoy having control over a man. Hypnosis is a sexy, subtle, and powerful way for me to dominate and to get my way. The level of control that I have over a person who is subjecting himself to me is a huge turn on. That is why I do it. I am sure there are plenty of hypnotists out there that do it in order to serve or to please however, my pleasure is my only concern.”
Lexie says she learned about hypnosis because her mother is a nurse. “Most people in the medical field have to take smaller courses called CEU credits. These courses are continuing education type things. My mother took a correspondence course for alleviating pain with self-hypnosis. She left the book in the bathroom when she was finished with the course. As an eight-year-old, I read the book up, down, and sideways.” Lexie became a phone sex girl when she was 19. “I learned that hypnosis was one of the big money fetishes and I remembered being a little girl and remembering all the self-hypnosis techniques. I gave it a shot and my clients fell in love.” The grad student continues her education by learning from her clients, “different methods and techniques that they can discuss about lulling themselves.”
Lexie has never been hypnotized, “I have Aspergers Autism, so I question and overthink most things. My mind isn’t made for being hypnotized. I’m way too skeptical and analytical.” Lexie thinks “there is a power issue when you have the hypnotic abilities. I believe that men are much more apt to desire to use those powers for possible ethically questionable methods. Women may use the financial game, but I think women also see the therapeutic possibilities of erotic hypnosis.” Working with people’s fetishes for ten years helps Lexie develop a deeper insight into her clients. “I think the fact that I have Asperger’s also makes me able to read people. I think that I can look at a person and tell their fetishes and their desires after the first 5 minutes. Without question. I’d say that when I’ve tested this at parties or social gatherings that I’m around 90% right and that’s with the assumption that the people are even being truthful. Some people are ashamed of their desires and fetishes.”
The Sorority Girl knows enough not to teach others what’s she’s learned. “You do not teach other people to do what you make money at,” she explains. “Men attempt to teach it because it gives them a `free’ audience to act out their fantasies. Women who do this are very cliquish. The money is that good. So why saturate the industry? Why teach others?” Lexie may not have the professional schooling of other erotic hypnotists, “but I have the exact same size client base and cater to the same fetishes. Once the techniques are learned, and learned by someone who also gets the mentality of each kink and fetish, the possibilities of control and financial capitalization are limitless.”
Lexie says people come to erotic hypnotists because they “truly want their inhibitions gone so that they can live out whatever fetish they have. I think hypnosis breaks down the barriers and allows their mind to let in the pleasure and feelings that they subconsciously do desire. Hypnosis allows people to rid themselves of the shame or guilt that that conscious mind may have for a fetish.” Most of her clients already want to do the things she suggests, but hypnosis allows her to push their limits. “I think it all depends on the client’s open mindedness and their desire to overcome barriers. Some pets can be taken down so deeply that they do not realize that they pushed through limits.”
As a hypnotist who caters to brainwash fetishes, Lexie believes that controlling people’s minds is possible. “If you’ve spent time studying the CIA’s use of MK Ultra and watching some of the videos that revolve around those studies, you would see that mind control is very, very real. It’s not just a figment of the imagination. It’s all about pacing, timing, consciousness levels, and all of that. You would be surprised what you find when you actually research the history of mind control and MK Ultra. I can spend hours reading about it.” A lot has been written on MK Ultra in Alt Variety, including its supposed connection to Freemasonry. Goddess Cathy, who is a member of the Order of the Eastern Star, which was founded in 1868 as a women’s auxiliary for the Masons, assures us that “My family is deeply Masonic; however the concept that we are interested in world domination is false. More likely if you check our history, the Masonic revolution represented the breaking away of the rights of the individual thinker from the tyrannical bodies that sought to restrain them.” The MK Ultra projects were based in part on the works of mind control hypnosis pioneer, G. H. Estabrook. Unsettling, but popular depictions of mind control in films like The Manchurian Candidate make a lot of people apprehensive about giving over their wills, but others get a thrill from the possibilities of warping the mind that hypnosis offers.
Nikki Darling
Nikki Darling has no doubts about what hypnosis can do. “There is definitely such a thing as mind control. I find that very few people know how to do it, which is probably a good thing, but it is 100 percent real and 100 percent possible.” Darling was 19 when she first became interested in hypnosis. “I was studying psychology in college. This is of course before I realized that I would go on to be a famous dominatrix. There was a small chapter on hypnosis and hypnotherapy and it really sparked my interest to know that I could actually manipulate a person’s mind and modify their behavior. A few years later, at age 23, I taught myself the art of hypnosis by reading a couple books on various techniques and theories and then checking out a couple MP3s. From there, I really just made it my own and began incorporating it into my work in the fetish world. Hypnosis and domination can be a very delicious duo.”
Darling thinks hypnotic seduction classes are “a way for uber-creepy perverted men to get close to women. I hate saying that, but I have seen it time and time again. They `teach a class’ on hypnosis that inevitably ends in a two-bit stage hypnosis where they give a woman a trigger word and make her orgasm. It’s just so tacky to me as a practitioner of such a powerful art. This is a big reason why I decided to make myself available as a presenter. I do not demonstrate hypnosis in my classes. I teach about how hypnosis can be used in master/slave dynamics, behavior modification, and mind manipulation. If someone is serious about learning these techniques, they will approach me after class. This is how I ensure that my approach on hypnosis is taught to the few vigilant enough to put the time and effort into developing such a skill.”
Darling explains that she has such a strong hypnotic effect on people because she is a mystic. “I am very sensitive to the energy of everything around me which tends to help me read people. Having and developing psychic ability is a huge help in the area of hypnosis.” This allows her to bypass most of her clients’ logical mind, enabling her to ensnare them more thoroughly than mere hypnosis. “The basic rule of thumb here with triggers and suggestions is that the subject has to be at least somewhat open to them. Our minds have boundaries set, whether from experience, moral compass, survival mode, etc. I cannot hypnotize someone to do something they are completely against. I do however possess the skills to bend them over time. It is my belief that you can change the core of someone over time if you are willing to put in the work and be patient. If a person is open to being controlled, that is really the only thing I need.”
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